I’m not a huge fan of insults – unless they’re funny. But the worst kinds of insults – much like lies – are the lazy ones.
You know, the ones where zero effort has been applied and all that’s left is the nasty.
Things like: ‘She manages like she’s a police officer’ when the person in question used to be a police officer.
It’s the same aggravation with ‘the easy narrative’.
Just say you had spent five years being strung through court over child custody matters with a man who once and continues to try to abuse you.
Just say he spends all that time telling you you’re a liar. And mental. And completely forensic in trying to keep his child from him.
And the narrative he chooses to tell the tea room audience at work is this: The system is full of man haters. She is just keeping my son from me to cause me pain. She is a vengeful and crazed bitch.
Never mind that he’s the one who took the matter to court. Never mind that he ended up getting less than he’d been offered custody wise the first day he and his estranged wife sat down for free of charge mediation five years and a couple hundred thousand dollars ago.
And ‘Man Hating Crazed Bitch’ is all he can come up with?
Surely if I’m that crazed, I’m worth a much better story than that?
How insulting.