I feel like I have a very large, heavy breathing rottweiler attached to my head, his jaws clamped tightly over my brain to just above my eyes.
If people could see him there my stiff expressions, hesitant decision making, and inability to think more than an hour or two into the future would become more understandable. The wallet left on the bench at home instead of taken with me to the doctor’s appointment, the odd, unmatched socks, the forgetting of friends’ birthdays and meetings …
If the Drooling Rottweiler of Anxiety was visible, the fact that I am dressed properly and standing upright would be seen for the superheroic effort it feels like at the moment.
In three weeks it will all be over. The court process will have hit its end point. I will have survived listening to He Who Shall Not Be Named pleading his case, telling me (and the court) how much he loves his son, how he has attended a yoga class and therefore is not stressed any more.
And I will have to decide I can live with whatever the decision is.
That I can either welcome my son’s engagement with his dad on a cautious and incremental basis or that I will have to face the reality of even more heavily arming my little guy to defend himself from the self-crushing reality of life with his father.