It’s nice how little I think of this now. But I had one of those dreams last night. If I was being flippant I would characterise it as a ‘bad conscience dream’, though I have little to have a bad conscience about with regard to Halfman. I don’t know what it’s about really, but I have it once in a while: a dream where I meet the ball-less one somewhere and his wife talks to me and I realise she has gone mad because of what he did to her, how he treated her and the lies he wove that involved me. I woke up feeling terrible about it. And powerless.
Of course, though, as the day wore on pleasantly, I started to think about how much I wish the final moment where Halfman and I shared a piece of earth as two people who had once had an intimate relationship was a moment in which I had spoken aloud what I was thinking.
As is often my wont, I chose to be silent. But my head was full of thoughts.
I had met with him in a certain park on a cold, damp, grey day, having discovered his betrayal, his lies and his psychopathic scheme. I couldn’t bring myself to yell at him, but he knew I was angry.
He was frightened to speak to me. And then he cried. Poor, pathetic thing.
Eventually I ended the conversation, pretended to be ‘just fine, thank you very much’, and popped off to my car to grab a box of things I wanted to donate to the place he was working, but which I didn’t want to bring in because I’d have to see him. (Ugh)
So I stood behind him as he sat on the grass, his legs folded under him, his shoulders curved forwards, his head down. He was either continuing to boo hoo or just waiting for this to be over so he could go away and solidify whatever lying excuses he’d made to his wife about me at that point.
I gave him the box. I tried to explain to him what was in it. He cut me off with his sharp tongue — as if to say: don’t be so frivolous, I’ve had enough. (I now think he was just grumpy that I had ensured what he’d done was now known to his wife and that he’d felt he had to appease me to make sure I left him to weave his lies to her from there on out.)
So I stopped explaining the box’s contents and I put my left hand on his left shoulder – just for a second.
I reckon he thought I was being wistful, sighing with the weight of having to let him go.
But here is what I was thinking – for the record (the record only I really care about, I’m sure). I was thinking: You are a liar. You shit allllll over me. I hate you.
Of course, I didn’t hate him. And I don’t hate him now. I’m not very prolific at the Hate Thing. I seem to default to hating the action, not the person. As much as I’d love to hate him, I don’t. But, my goodness, it would have felt good to say that to him out loud and make sure he knew he had killed off all the loveliness that had once been there.
Arsehat.