Grrrr.
Having your looks commented on in a work context.
Ugh.
And then the implication that if you raise these comments as inappropriate and/or demeaning, you are just a bitch who needs some time with a male to relax.
Ugh. Ugh.
I’ve had a number of men (usually over the age of 50) comment to me on how difficult it is for them to function in a professional world where they’re no longer able to compliment a female on her looks or the length of her skirt without being unjustly slapped with the label of ‘sexist’.
Gee. It really must be hard keeping those irrelevant thoughts to yourself.
So painful to have to ogle women as if they are ‘other’ rather than just look upon them as a brain and fellow contributor to a conversation.
Closely related to this hellish part of male existence is their ability to mistake ‘being polite’ for ‘flirtation’.
Seriously now, a female smiling and saying ‘hello’ at a work meeting or waggling their wit in front of you must just be their way of saying ‘take me now – I only work so I can meet eligible middle aged be-gutted, balding men like you’.
I’d say ‘BITE ME’ to the lot of them, but I’m pretty sure that would be misconstrued.